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ok my wife has told me recently that she was planning on leaving me but this was after i discovered a conversation between her and friend about my wife having a friend that she is a little to close to in my opinion because she has said she isnt doing anything but she has thought about it we are seperated because of military reasons she is deployed and i am home with our children i havent done anything in the sense i dont beat her or cheat on her maybe i havent been the best husband in the sense that i dont always say how much i love her or that she is the most beautiful person i have in my life besides our children and that i will do anything for her but at the same time i have never been able to tell her why it is that i love her. she wanted to have another child a few weeks ago and now she wont even really tell me what it is that is so awful about us and says she doesnt love me the way she should and this has been an ongoing thing with her but every few months she tells me she wants to be with me then she tells me she doesnt i really just want to know what to say to her or what it is that i should do i put this out there to strangers because friends say leave her and her friends dont tell me anything to do people that are our aquantances say that she is wrong and will regret it so i am looking for an objective opinion really.