I've lost my mojo!

[beyondtheblueprint]

I used to get dates all the time. But recently, I haven't gotten any. I don't look any different, maybe a little older and thinner, but that's all.

The problem may be that I've dated almost everyone I'm interested in at my school. So I don't really have anyone left to hook-up with. Gah, this sucks.

[santi3hg]

Other schools? Or move down to Miami.

[Sirens59]

Originally Posted by beyodtheblueprint

I used to get dates all the time. But recently, I haven't gotten any. I don't look any different, maybe a little older and thinner, but that's all.

The problem may be that I've dated almost everyone I'm interested in at my school. So I don't really have anyone left to hook-up with. Gah, this sucks.

Excuse me for intruding on your "eternal love conquests", but that paragraph completely sounds like you're lying not only about about dating all your crushes at school, but about ever dating anybody at all. I have no proof, but if you have something like that to say, try not to brag about it to a point were it's obvious its all a lie. Don't talk about a mojo you never even had in the first place.

[TheLoveDoctor]

Originally Posted by Sirens59

Excuse me for intruding on your "eternal love conquests", but that paragraph completely sounds like you're lying not only about about dating all your crushes at school, but about ever dating anybody at all. I have no proof, but if you have something like that to say, try not to brag about it to a point were it's obvious its all a lie. Don't talk about a mojo you never even had in the first place.

I'm sure he was exaggerating for effect, but the general gist is that he "used to get some." Well my friend, I'd echo the advice given area, look outside of your shcool!

[imrithereritnow]

well if you have a car then take like weekend trips to all the nearby towns - thats wut i do sometimes - and you can bring a friend too but then you have to find two girls....... see if any of ur friends know some girls from other towns or otherwise use myspace, believe it or not you can bang chicks off there not too hard.....

[cambece]

Ha, I felt the same way for a while...I think you might just be trying too hard. What i discovered is waiting is sometimes the best thing you can do. For me i show intrest in the girl, then i see if she is intrested in me, but i keep a distance to make her wonder and if she really is intrested in me she will go for it or atleast flirt a little then i make my move...For me that has yet to fail, i cant stand rejection so i like to make it a sure shot...

Cambece

[TheLoveDoctor]

Originally Posted by cambece

Ha, I felt the same way for a while...I think you might just be trying too hard. What i discovered is waiting is sometimes the best thing you can do. For me i show intrest in the girl, then i see if she is intrested in me, but i keep a distance to make her wonder and if she really is intrested in me she will go for it or atleast flirt a little then i make my move...For me that has yet to fail, i cant stand rejection so i like to make it a sure shot...

Cambece

Definitely a good "play it safe" strategy. If you can "master" this behavior, it works wonders