need relationship help

undeadbastard · 08-13-2006, 07:22 PM

It seems like all my relationships go down the drain before it hits the sink... I mess up when talking to girls and girls simply prush me or kick me in the balls long before I even say anything... I been single for god knows how long!! Hell it's hell for me just to get any love from the girls in my shcool *sigh* if anyone can help me I'll be giveful.

lindseym · 08-16-2006, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by undeadbastard

It seems like all my relationships go down the drain before it hits the sink... I mess up when talking to girls and girls simply prush me or kick me in the balls long before I even say anything... I been single for god knows how long!! Hell it's hell for me just to get any love from the girls in my shcool *sigh* if anyone can help me I'll be giveful.

You can't approach a girl thinking "I'M GOING TO DATE THIS CHICK" You have to just be friendly with them. Before you date them, get to know them let them get to know you. You'd be surprised how well that will work. A girl loves when a guy gets to know her. You're not the only one who hasn't had a girlfriend in a long time, my current boyfriend waited for the right person to date and didn't get the first one that appeared on his doorstep. You just have to wait to see who is right for you, don't take the first one that appears. Wait it out, you'll find someone.

Froldt · 08-16-2006, 08:21 PM

It took me over a year to find someone I was interested in dating, once I started looking again. Once I found someone I was interested in, we started out as friends, and after about two months we decided "this is silly, we spend enough time together, we should just start dating." And so we are.

lindseym brings up the point that I always try to follow in my relationships. Be friends first, and if it turns into more, then you have that foundation that I feel is needed to have a successful relationship.

The waiting is horrible, but it's worth it in the end.

undeadbastard · 08-21-2006, 09:44 PM

Thanks for the info but when I said "my relationships go down the drain before it hits the sink" I mean I can't even get a friendship going...sorry if I sounded rude...

DubC444 · 08-22-2006, 06:04 PM

You might want to look at how you act and have acted in the past to girls that you know. Once you have a reputation with one girl, you have a reputation with them all.

I would start with girls in your classes, just be generally friendly and curteous and talk about things pertaining to the class. If you're polite and nice and they seem interested you can work from there.

Froldt · 08-23-2006, 07:12 PM

undead, the only thing that I can think of is that perhaps you are trying too hard. Act naturally, be yourself. It might be hard if you are nervous, but if you just be yourself, and don't think about it, that might help.

Does what DubC444 suggested help any?

undeadbastard · 08-23-2006, 07:56 PM

DubC44 your right bro thanks...and froldt I guess I was trying to hard to get one...I guess i been making a fool of myself trying to get a relationship going. hearing all the guys talkin about their girl friends made me want one so badly...I mean I made a fool of myself. Thanks for your help everyone....*sigh* lol

08-13-2006, 07:22 PM	#1 (permalink)
undeadbastard Virgin Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 9	need relationship help It seems like all my relationships go down the drain before it hits the sink... I mess up when talking to girls and girls simply prush me or kick me in the balls long before I even say anything... I been single for god knows how long!! Hell it's hell for me just to get any love from the girls in my shcool sigh if anyone can help me I'll be giveful.

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08-16-2006, 08:21 PM	#3 (permalink)
Froldt In Love Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 160	It took me over a year to find someone I was interested in dating, once I started looking again. Once I found someone I was interested in, we started out as friends, and after about two months we decided "this is silly, we spend enough time together, we should just start dating." And so we are. lindseym brings up the point that I always try to follow in my relationships. Be friends first, and if it turns into more, then you have that foundation that I feel is needed to have a successful relationship. The waiting is horrible, but it's worth it in the end.

08-21-2006, 09:44 PM	#4 (permalink)
undeadbastard Virgin Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 9	Thanks for the info but when I said "my relationships go down the drain before it hits the sink" I mean I can't even get a friendship going...sorry if I sounded rude...

08-22-2006, 06:04 PM	#5 (permalink)
DubC444 Virgin Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 14	You might want to look at how you act and have acted in the past to girls that you know. Once you have a reputation with one girl, you have a reputation with them all. I would start with girls in your classes, just be generally friendly and curteous and talk about things pertaining to the class. If you're polite and nice and they seem interested you can work from there.

08-23-2006, 07:12 PM	#6 (permalink)
Froldt In Love Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 160	undead, the only thing that I can think of is that perhaps you are trying too hard. Act naturally, be yourself. It might be hard if you are nervous, but if you just be yourself, and don't think about it, that might help. Does what DubC444 suggested help any?

08-23-2006, 07:56 PM	#7 (permalink)
undeadbastard Virgin Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 9	DubC44 your right bro thanks...and froldt I guess I was trying to hard to get one...I guess i been making a fool of myself trying to get a relationship going. hearing all the guys talkin about their girl friends made me want one so badly...I mean I made a fool of myself. Thanks for your help everyone....sigh lol

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