how long should i waitttt

yourowndisaster · 01-22-2007, 06:55 PM

i just broke up with this dude.. oh wait no more like this ass...
how long do you think i should wait before i start dating another dude...?
cause right now i sorta feel a little vulnerable but idk
i think maybe 2-3 weeks is long enough.. haha idk.
just wondering about others' advice...

TheLoveDoctor · 01-29-2007, 06:07 PM

When you feel you are completely over the person, you truly like the new person and you can give him your full relationship attention without diverting back to your ex.

Ðanisty · 01-30-2007, 03:51 PM

That includes not making comparisons, even if you see the new guy as better. Nobody likes to be compared to an ex even if it is in a positive way.

TheLoveDoctor · 01-30-2007, 08:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ðanisty

That includes not making comparisons, even if you see the new guy as better. Nobody likes to be compared to an ex even if it is in a positive way.

Very true. He shouldn't be a replacement, but someone you truly care about.

jigyasa · 10-01-2008, 10:46 AM

If the guy you just broke off with is an ass, then don't even think so much about dating again. Just keep your doors open.

tongyun · 10-02-2008, 06:52 AM

If the guy was that bad, what are you waiting for? There's no reason to sit around and grieve. Get back into the ballgame!

sarah · 10-07-2008, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by TheLoveDoctor

When you feel you are completely over the person, you truly like the new person and you can give him your full relationship attention without diverting back to your ex.

Completely agree. There is no set time frame for this, it can vary from person to person and from relationship to relationship

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jigyasa In Like Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 57	Re: how long should i waitttt If the guy you just broke off with is an ass, then don't even think so much about dating again. Just keep your doors open.

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tongyun In Like Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 34	Re: how long should i waitttt If the guy was that bad, what are you waiting for? There's no reason to sit around and grieve. Get back into the ballgame!

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01-29-2007, 06:07 PM	#2 (permalink)
TheLoveDoctor Moderator Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: California Posts: 531	When you feel you are completely over the person, you truly like the new person and you can give him your full relationship attention without diverting back to your ex.

01-30-2007, 03:51 PM	#3 (permalink)
Ðanisty In Love Join Date: Nov 1999 Location: Savannah, GA Posts: 148	That includes not making comparisons, even if you see the new guy as better. Nobody likes to be compared to an ex even if it is in a positive way.

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