Help!!!

[jigyasa]

I had a couple of dates with this guy I met in my college. The dates were fun so far but recently he asked me out. I told him I was not ready yet and I needed time. But he has made it "now or never" situation. I've tried talking to him but nothing works. He is a good guy otherwise. What do I do?

[Simplyme]

Honestly, if he does not think you are worth waiting for then nice or not he is not right for you. If he was he would be willing to give you the time that you needed. It may be a tough call but you know you need time then you need to take that time and make sure you are ready.

[flowerhorn]

Well, I think he doesn't make you "clicked"! He simply doesn't have the required chemistry to attract you. I think you are using "I am not ready" as an excuse not to go steady with him. Anyhow, I would suggest you go out with him for one more time to tell him that you are treating him as a friend for the time being and it is useless to rush things now. If he keeps on insisting that he be your boyfriend, tell him that you won't even want to have him as a normal friend!

[sarah]

Never allow anyone to give you a now or never.

If he is going to do that on something simple such as this, then you open the door for future now or never situations.