Can't stand my fiance's family

[JimBeam]

I'm only a first year electrician apprentice and my fiance stays at home with our son during the day... so we're living solely off my wage and what little amount we get from government allowances. We struggle, and we struggle bad. My fiance's family suggested moving in with us (we are renting off my fiance's sister) to relieve the cost of living a bit... I agreed instantly because I hate this struggle we live in.
Well, they moved in about 2 weeks ago (my fiance's sister and her mum) and I'm already sick of them. Her mum is the biggest whinger you have ever met, and sister is a damn control freak. Whenever I disagree with anything they want to do, they go and bicker about me quietly in the next room, as if I can't hear them. They are ****ting me to tears (not literally) and I don't know how much more of their crap I can put up with.
The latest thing was the organising of our Christmas lunch. My fiance's sister wants to host the whole thing, and has asked that we each put in $50 towards to the food... $50 per person!!!!!!!! I said straight out that I wont be doing it, I can't afford to do that, and if I have to I'll buy my own food to eat, because I surely won't eat $50 worth of food, that's just ridiculous. Boy did that go down well. They offered to bring it down to $40... but the thing is, I don't want to eat all the expensive crap they're planning on making. All I want is a sausage or two on the barbeque and maybe a steak, along with a few beers. They want to make seafood platters and other crap like that, which i wont eat, so I don't want to contribute to the cost of that... I think that's fair enough, but it's not good enough for them.
As you can tell I'm really sick of their ****... and I haven't even mentioned them constantly judging me (the way I spend time with my son, the amount of time I spend with my fiance.. **** like that)... and I fell like having a rant.
Any comments are welcome but really all I wanted to do was get this out... 'cause I'm f***ing pissed off at the moment.

[jebd]

Have a family meeting and have everyone expressed their feelings would be the best. Best of luck with your financial struggle and the family situation, mate.

[errol]

Hey JimBean

I was wondering how things were going with your fiance's family. I realise that your post is over 3 years old. I think I'm in a similiar situation to you. If things did work out for you, perhaps I'll be OK too.

So, if you are still around, please let me know what happened. You can PM me if you like. Thanks