Is Porn Cheating?

[footballfanatic]

Well I've recently had this discussion with my wife and some female and guy-friends. If you are in a marriage, and you watch pornography without your wife being there, are you "cheating?"

Almost all my guy friends said they don't consider it cheating, and surprisingly almost all the gals and my wife included said she does consider it cheating saying that "she should be enough," and was sort of surprised to find out I watch it.

What do you all think - is it cheating?

[freakypunkdixie]

I'll admit it, I get pissed off when my boyfriend watches other naked women doing the nasty. However, I know that he is a guy and guys just can't resist; it's like girls and chocolate.

But to take it as far as cheating, I think that's crazy. I would suggust this though:
~Make your own pornography with your wife and beat off to that~

Would she call that cheating? If she does then you're **** out of luck.

[sjackson]

My husband is has joined numerous web sites that offer dating services and porno site and this really bothers me. As far as I know he hasn't dated any of these women but I'm really scared that he finds these women more interesting than me. any suggestions???

[TheLoveDoctor]

Originally Posted by sjackson

My husband is has joined numerous web sites that offer dating services and porno site and this really bothers me. As far as I know he hasn't dated any of these women but I'm really scared that he finds these women more interesting than me. any suggestions???

Have you talked to him about the issue?

[beyondtheblueprint]

Originally Posted by freakypunkdixie

I'll admit it, I get pissed off when my boyfriend watches other naked women doing the nasty. However, I know that he is a guy and guys just can't resist; it's like girls and chocolate.

But to take it as far as cheating, I think that's crazy. I would suggust this though:
~Make your own pornography with your wife and beat off to that~

Would she call that cheating? If she does then you're **** out of luck.

This is definitely your best bet. How sweet is it to be in your own pr0n.

Can I be the camera man?

[santi3hg]

Yeah I agree, making your own porn tape. Awesome idea, just I'd make sure the relationship is very stable.

[TheLoveDoctor]

I would think most girls would be kind of apprehensive to filming a "personal porn tape," but if she goes for it and you think it'll work, then why not? (except for the risk of public embarassment if it ever makes it onto the web :P)

[ColdFyre]

Honestly, all guys are going to masturbate. My friend who got married a year or two ago says that even though he gets as much sex as he wants, he still faps.

[tongyun]

Originally Posted by TheLoveDoctor

I would think most girls would be kind of apprehensive to filming a "personal porn tape," but if she goes for it and you think it'll work, then why not? (except for the risk of public embarassment if it ever makes it onto the web :P)

Hmmm...I agree that making your own porn tape probably isn't a great idea in this day and age. Shoot, it wasn't even a great idea when there were no computers. It reminds me of the scene from National Lampoon's European Vacation when they video taped themselves in bed, the video camera gets stolen and the next thing you know, she's a famous American housewife waiting to get it on. LOL. With the Internet, it's even worse.