Baby-Mama Drama!

Anonymous · 08-26-2006, 04:06 PM

So I met a man who I loved and then about 6 months into the marriage he was incarcerated and went to jail. Now this wasn't a big issue for me, but the thing is I think I became pregnant. Now I know most people say when men come out of jail they are going to cheat and all that but you know I thought I could trust the man. Well I am sure that he is the father; yes, I am pregnant. However when I tried to tell him he got angry and said no, that I had sex with other men while he was in jail. I'm trying to tell him that I didn't and even if I did the time makes it out so he has to be the father, and he won't listen and is runnin around with other floosies and it's making me feel like crap and I don't know what to do. Advice anyone?

jeffs wife · 08-28-2006, 04:33 AM

he is your husband. he is the one who messed up,not you,right. I would be really pissed off if I were you. If you go to the dr they can tell you how far along you are and that will prove to him you were pregnant before he was an asshole and went to jail. What is he in jail for?

Anonymous · 08-28-2006, 06:41 PM

Well he went to jail for assault with his little group, he would never hit me though. I don't know he won't LISTEN to ME or REASON!

Ðanisty · 09-01-2006, 05:56 PM

Ditch him...he's not worth it.

April · 09-01-2006, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Ðanisty

Ditch him...he's not worth it.

Agreed. You don't need that BS.

tongyun · 10-01-2008, 06:03 AM

Sorry, I have to agree with everyone else. You don't need that type of person in your life. For your own well being, move on.

Rusty · 10-01-2008, 07:27 PM

That's a sad situation... I don't know what did it, his upbringing or stories he has heard in jail about all women being cheaters and sleeping around, but he chose to think bad of you and not trust you anymore. You could always do a test and prove he is the father, but that will not prove to him that you have been faithful. I think, with him cheating and treating you like that, if you want to move on you are justified to do so.

sarah · 10-07-2008, 05:47 PM

I would do a paternity test and then move on

Find someone that truly cares about you and will love and trust you

bubble · 10-08-2008, 01:50 AM

To be honest, I would do a paternity test, then end the relationship.

You need to ask yourself if you would be happy to reconcile the relationship when you know your husband has openly run around with other women, could you forgive him? I know I couldn't.

10-01-2008, 06:03 AM	#6 (permalink)
tongyun In Like Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 34	Re: Baby-Mama Drama! Sorry, I have to agree with everyone else. You don't need that type of person in your life. For your own well being, move on.

10-01-2008, 07:27 PM	#7 (permalink)
Rusty In Like Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 35	Re: Baby-Mama Drama! That's a sad situation... I don't know what did it, his upbringing or stories he has heard in jail about all women being cheaters and sleeping around, but he chose to think bad of you and not trust you anymore. You could always do a test and prove he is the father, but that will not prove to him that you have been faithful. I think, with him cheating and treating you like that, if you want to move on you are justified to do so.

10-07-2008, 05:47 PM	#8 (permalink)
sarah In Like Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 52	Re: Baby-Mama Drama! I would do a paternity test and then move on Find someone that truly cares about you and will love and trust you

10-08-2008, 01:50 AM	#9 (permalink)
bubble Virgin Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 22	Re: Baby-Mama Drama! To be honest, I would do a paternity test, then end the relationship. You need to ask yourself if you would be happy to reconcile the relationship when you know your husband has openly run around with other women, could you forgive him? I know I couldn't.

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08-28-2006, 04:33 AM	#2 (permalink)
jeffs wife Virgin Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: New York Posts: 7	he is your husband. he is the one who messed up,not you,right. I would be really pissed off if I were you. If you go to the dr they can tell you how far along you are and that will prove to him you were pregnant before he was an asshole and went to jail. What is he in jail for?

08-28-2006, 06:41 PM	#3 (permalink)
Anonymous In Like Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 91	Well he went to jail for assault with his little group, he would never hit me though. I don't know he won't LISTEN to ME or REASON!

09-01-2006, 05:56 PM	#4 (permalink)
Ðanisty In Love Join Date: Nov 1999 Location: Savannah, GA Posts: 148	Ditch him...he's not worth it.

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