Boyfriend yells...

[Anonymous]

The other day I got into a really bad agrument with my boyfriend. We were out and I made up a excuse so that i could leave early. My boyfriend and I got in his truck and he started yelling at me about lying. We were driving down the highway and I was getting scared because he never yelled at me before.

I shut up so he would stop yelling at me and this got him even more angry. Then he started yelling at me for not answering. I got freaked out because he usually never does this type of thing and it wasn't that big of a lie. I wonder why he would get upset like this over something small.

[allecto]

Are you sure he has never done anything like this before? Usually, if people will yell over something small, that means they are prone to behaving that way. Have you been together long?

For me, yelling is a deal-breaker. NOBODY should be allowed to treat you that way, and take it from my experience - yelling is often a sign of anger that may manifest itself physically if you stick around to see.

I'd suggest at the very least, trying to confront your boyfriend about it (preferably in a public place or better yet in a therapist's office). You need to find out where this anger is coming from.

/hugs

Good luck!

[crashtestdummy]

Has he been under any sort of stress lately, that could be it, maybe he just exploded and you were there to take the wrap for his stress. It happens, i suggest you talk to him ,see what's going on, im sure there is a logical explenation.