Caught in a crazy situation.

[Zephyr]

I'll try to make this short and sweet. There are currently two girls that want to go out with me. This is extremely unusual for me, a guy who can barely get a girlfriend. To make matters more confusing, the two are cousins and are very close. I'll give a quick description of the two.

A) The older of the two, I'll call her A. Now A and I would make great friends if it weren't for the fact that she doesn't seem to want to settle for that. I honestly feel no attraction towards her, and I have hinted at this many many times. We are the same age.

B) The younger, B, seems like a totally awesome person who I would like to hook up with. One problem: she has a boyfriend. They have been in a pretty big fight recently because he cheated on her and it seems they could break up any time now. She explained to me that she likes me, but says she is gonna try to ride it out with her boyfriend to see if he'll change. We met when she was trying to set A and I up. She is two years younger than me but suprisingly mature.

Ok, so that wasn't so quick. Anyways, I'm just confused and need advice. I have never been in this kind of situation, so I'm idealess.

[TheLoveDoctor]

If I were you I wouldn't rush into a relationships with either of them at this point. Both of them seem doomed from the start. If you feel no attraction to the older one, than any sort of relationship won't work out...and if the younger one is so confused about her feelings she'll bring nothing but trouble to your relationship.

[tidalecko]

You should never consider dating someone who you are not attracted to. It will only be hell for you and hearbreak for them. It's a complete lose-lose situation. Be sure not to give her the wrong signals, or you risk hurting your feelings. It's good that you have made your position clear.

The younger girl, B, may be good for you. But listen to the Doctor: if a girl is confused about what she wants, she could be giving you the wrong signals, or setting the scene up for tragedy later down the road.

I think you should keep talking to girl B. Don't push anything, flirt like a true playa , and make your move when the time is right.

[sherkanfala]

Never date someone you are not attracted to unless you don't know them. They tend to end awkwardly and the bond between you two probably wouldn't be the same again. You should get to know person A first, and if you feel like she is something that you're looking for, than go for her. You should let the relationship between person B and her boyfriend die as if it's going down the drain like you say it is, its only a matter of time, and if she is still interested after that, then go for her.