I Just Need Help

[pinkgerber]

Hi I have a little problem I met this guy about a year ago sweet gentle guy everything i could ever ask for and not only that but he made me so happy after a long long time of sadness. Anyway heres the thing we went out for about a month then one day he just called me to tell me that it was over and that was it i never had a explanation at all I always felt that i deserved one but never recieved one till this day. Anyway we kept being friends and of course to my stupidity I fell in love I just got to know him more and he was more comfortable with me the trust became stronger in his part I told him how I felt and that I was very thankful meeting him he never told me anything I would ask him how he felt about me or what he thought of my feelings towards him and nothing at all but yet he stuck around and he acted more then a friend when i would see him he was sweet and their was a lot of eye contact and smiling and when i would do something wrong he would get angry of he saw me with a guy he would jealous just little actions that just should that their were more then just friend feelings they are to many to write down but their were a couple. I mean anyone that would meet him that knew my situation could tell that their was something between us that when he would see me they could see that he would looked at me as if their was no one else in the room as I look at him he has not played any games but he does give hints that he feels about the same way I love this man to death and I really dont know what to do anymore I recently moved and me not knowing i moved across the street from him I nor him had no clue. I guess what i really need help on is that everytime that i would pull away from him he pulled me right back as if he did not want to let me go either he has confused me over and over again and he knows that i love him but me makes no move at all and i am ready to give up my friends and family tell me not to to just give it time but i have givin him time its been a year and nothing i can tell by the way that he looks at me that he does care but he says nothing at all and i of course do dont hesitat at all to let him know how i truly feel I don't know what to do anymore and i am just hurting and i am getting to the point where i can really just feel my soul dying on me and the best i can do to make it better is if i see him for a slipt of a second and i just feel alive and happy again not only that but i fall all over again i cant beleive that a person would make me feel this way a its terrible I need help i am so messed up that as you can tell i dont even know how to put my thoughts together and the worst part is that i choose not to talk to anyone this deeply about how i am feeling please help what should i do?. People actually think that this is like a love story and little situations have happen between me and him that would make it seem that way and to let just faith take care of it and to be patient and wait. Should I wait or give up all at once?, and realize that he wont give us a chance at all or WAIT? I mean this is the love of my life and i know that in a way he really does care about me the reason i choose not to compleatly believe that is because i have not heard those words from him Oh and one more thing ever since i moved across the street from him i have kept my distance from him but i can tell by his actions that when i am no where near him or i act like he is not their he looks for me and we have not really talked in three months. HELP please. thanks bye

[TheLoveDoctor]

Have you thought about confronting him with a question of whether there is something between you or no? Perhaps you could write a letter or have a conversation. He may be just afraid/shy you won't "take him back."

[pinkgerber]

yes i have tried to trust me he has received a letter already from me that he was never really ment to receive but somehow it got to his hands either way he has said nothing and just sees me the same way i hate it so much i know that he is shy and maybe i come off to strong for him but i have put my self to the side and just waited if he would do something i dont really say much to him these days i am so affraid that i will screw it up and i rather not take my chances by saying anything anymore, also he received the letter about a month ago and nothing i just feel so angry at him and just think of him as a coward but what can i do wait or just forget it and trust me i have tried to move on but i just end up comparing each guy to him and never really far for them the interest is their and the minute the kiss happens i never see them again i just don't feel anything for them at all what can i do? help

[pinkgerber]

can anyone please give me some advice?

[TheLoveDoctor]

If he is this aloof, then you need to move on. Go ahead - start dating other people, keep your options open. If you wait for this type of guy, you'll wait forever.