Losing Erection... Disorder or Normal?

Elo

I have a habit of losing erection at the most crucial times, I lost my erection right at the moment that penetration would have happened on 2 counts and im beginning to wonder if i may have a problem, i know one time was because i dont think i really wanted to be with the girl but the most recent was with a girl that i love unconditionally, we had already begun to have intercourse and i pulled out and thought better of having unsafe sex and went to get a condom then i lost my erection and i couldnt get it back up long enough to put the condom on and begin again.... it was a real mood killer. do i have a problem or am i doing something wrong? oh and we had been having foreplay for an hour or 2 before hand and this was the first account that i was with this girl intimatly.

do i have a problem?

TheLoveDoctor

I really think that it could just be nerves. Are you only having this problem when you are with girls? How about when you want to get an erection when you are by yourself?

If you don't mind me asking, what is your age? I'm asking because I'm wondering if you *may* have erectile dysfunction (but I doubt it - don't get alarmed!)

elomeda_hai

sorry, for some reason i can't get back on as Elo, but yea im 19 and this is the same person... normally its not a problem but im normally with my girlfriend for longer than the time that it takes if im just by myself.... we foreplay for a long time and thats normally when i start losing my erection and then i can't get it back up...

tidalecko

Do you masturbate often? I found that when I was masturbating alot (at least once a day), it was harder to keep an erection. If I stopped for a week, I could practically keep it up all day and have multiple orgasms.

elomeda_hai

i will try that but i dont know how much it will help because i dont masturbate that often.

tidalecko

Foreplay is always good. Nerves can be a strong factor in situations like this, so don't be too quick to doubt (though I'm not saying that is your situation guaranteed). Your mind is the master of your body (unless you give in to each and every impulse, and in that case you would be a slave to desire and an animal unfit for society ). Your subconscious is also very powerful.

If you aren't attracted to the girl, well, you will have trouble getting it up.

However, you love this other girl unconditionally. I wonder how long you have been together? (if you haven't been together very long, then that will also be a factor here) She means the world to you. I think you could be worried about your own performance, which in turn makes it harder to perform. Have a glass of wine beforehand (if that's your thing). It will loosen your nerves and relax you, without getting you drunk. It's also romantic . Don't worry about your erection -- just concentrate on pleasing her. I seriously doubt you have any physical problems at your age.

ashwell

Well as far as my knowledge goes I see no abnormal behavior in this, and you can be certain that you arent under the influence of any health problems too. The mind as you know can play a very crucial role while you are going for this act and you have already depicted that you were not in the mood. In my case let me tell you that I used to be a shy sort of person and the first time I got the company of girls was thru the help of "link deleted" female escorts now over the months have learnt a lot about this and therefore from my experience I can say that you are absoulutely nornal.





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