Phone Sex... Good or Bad?

beachlover · 01-17-2006, 06:54 AM

I've tried phone sex a couple times. Sometimes it was pretty good, but sometimes it was just awful and awkward. I was just curious on your opinions of phone sex and what makes it good or bad.

tidalecko · 01-18-2006, 09:03 PM

As a guy, I'm not very verbal when it comes to sex. So I tend to find phone sex awkward. There are times when I get horny enough that it doesn't matter, and I do it anyways; but most of the time I do if because my girl wants to do it.

Girls seem to love it when the guy sets up a scene for her - it's basically role playing, which can be really fun when you get into it.

One of the most important things, in my opinion, is to make sure you won't be distracted. I know I would be embarassed if someone walked in on me having phone sex

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Chiclero · 01-22-2006, 01:20 PM

Yeah, the key thing is to make sure that you're not going to be caught doing it. I wouldn't be able to look at my parents for weeks if they caught me talking dirty.

kittytrix · 01-24-2006, 02:29 AM

I have never had phone sex, but my boyfriend was out of the state and he was telling me how horny my voice made him and it made me immedately aroused, but it didn't seem like there was anything I could do to make it pleasurable. And is for it being good or bad, all sex is good as long as it isn't rape or having sex with the dead, let's just say keepind legal and safe.

Don Pendleton · 01-26-2006, 02:12 PM

I got caught having phone sex in highschool. EMBARRASING. But the worst part is I got caught by my grandmother while she was visiting!!! I was in the middle of dirty talk with my b/f when my mom called my name, I set the phone down and walked into the kitchen, passing the living room. I glanced in and saw my grandma and kept walking. When my mom was done I walked back and saw my grandma from the other angle with the phone in her hand!!!!! I RAN to my room and hung up. I never got in trouble but the whole time my grandma was there she kept asking "are you ok honey?" "you would tell us if you were in trouble right?" OMG so awefull!!!!

Point Given · 01-26-2006, 06:29 PM

I personally think it's just a waste of money. I prefer sex to me more intimate with a person who is there. I guess phone sex can be passionate but that's just not how I roll

sheekormeek · 02-20-2006, 06:22 AM

mmm. doesnt do it for me

I'm more of physical kind of girl; there's no lovin involved!
So wheres the pleasure whats the point?

tidalecko · 02-20-2006, 05:51 PM

Apparently, you can masturbate and pretend that you're with your partner.

Of course the real thing is better, but what if you have thousands of miles between you, and you are burning for some lovin'?

TheLoveDoctor · 02-20-2006, 10:31 PM

I'm worried I wouldn't be able to stop laughing if I tried to have phone sex. Different strokes for different folks!

tidalecko · 02-21-2006, 03:18 PM

Yeah, I felt that way the first few times I did it. You have to narrate the situation as if you're in a romance novel, and it can be uncomfortable for the guys, but the girls seem to enjoy it when they're in the mood and you're far away.

01-17-2006, 06:54 AM	#1 (permalink)
beachlover Virgin Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 4	Phone Sex... Good or Bad? I've tried phone sex a couple times. Sometimes it was pretty good, but sometimes it was just awful and awkward. I was just curious on your opinions of phone sex and what makes it good or bad.

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sheekormeek Virgin Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 2	Not impressed mmm. doesnt do it for me I'm more of physical kind of girl; there's no lovin involved! So wheres the pleasure whats the point?

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01-18-2006, 09:03 PM	#2 (permalink)
tidalecko In Love Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: The right place. Posts: 246	As a guy, I'm not very verbal when it comes to sex. So I tend to find phone sex awkward. There are times when I get horny enough that it doesn't matter, and I do it anyways; but most of the time I do if because my girl wants to do it. Girls seem to love it when the guy sets up a scene for her - it's basically role playing, which can be really fun when you get into it. One of the most important things, in my opinion, is to make sure you won't be distracted. I know I would be embarassed if someone walked in on me having phone sex .

01-22-2006, 01:20 PM	#3 (permalink)
Chiclero Virgin Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 5	Yeah, the key thing is to make sure that you're not going to be caught doing it. I wouldn't be able to look at my parents for weeks if they caught me talking dirty.

01-24-2006, 02:29 AM	#4 (permalink)
kittytrix Virgin Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 12	I have never had phone sex, but my boyfriend was out of the state and he was telling me how horny my voice made him and it made me immedately aroused, but it didn't seem like there was anything I could do to make it pleasurable. And is for it being good or bad, all sex is good as long as it isn't rape or having sex with the dead, let's just say keepind legal and safe.

01-26-2006, 02:12 PM	#5 (permalink)
Don Pendleton Virgin Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: the tower of terror Posts: 13	I got caught having phone sex in highschool. EMBARRASING. But the worst part is I got caught by my grandmother while she was visiting!!! I was in the middle of dirty talk with my b/f when my mom called my name, I set the phone down and walked into the kitchen, passing the living room. I glanced in and saw my grandma and kept walking. When my mom was done I walked back and saw my grandma from the other angle with the phone in her hand!!!!! I RAN to my room and hung up. I never got in trouble but the whole time my grandma was there she kept asking "are you ok honey?" "you would tell us if you were in trouble right?" OMG so awefull!!!!

01-26-2006, 06:29 PM	#6 (permalink)
Point Given Virgin Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: NYC Posts: 14	I personally think it's just a waste of money. I prefer sex to me more intimate with a person who is there. I guess phone sex can be passionate but that's just not how I roll

02-20-2006, 05:51 PM	#8 (permalink)
tidalecko In Love Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: The right place. Posts: 246	Apparently, you can masturbate and pretend that you're with your partner. Of course the real thing is better, but what if you have thousands of miles between you, and you are burning for some lovin'?

02-20-2006, 10:31 PM	#9 (permalink)
TheLoveDoctor Moderator Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: California Posts: 531	I'm worried I wouldn't be able to stop laughing if I tried to have phone sex. Different strokes for different folks!

02-21-2006, 03:18 PM	#10 (permalink)
tidalecko In Love Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: The right place. Posts: 246	Yeah, I felt that way the first few times I did it. You have to narrate the situation as if you're in a romance novel, and it can be uncomfortable for the guys, but the girls seem to enjoy it when they're in the mood and you're far away.

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