Too Much Sexual Attention?

elomeda_hai

Me and my girlfriend have had a lot of sexual attention between us and i was wondering if maybe i should back off.... it seems like thats becoming all we are about is making out and grinding, we have only had sex one real time but we are always rubbing on each other and kissing almost constantly when no one is around.... I just dont want this relationship to become nothing but sex because i really want to be with this girl maybe even as far as betrothal and so on.

TheLoveDoctor

How about when you aren't together? Do you have good phone or online conversations?

tidalecko

It's important for couples to have time alone. But if the only time you guys spend alone is when you're having sex, then there could be problems in the future. And it's good that you are able to recognize that in advance!

The most important thing you can do for anything that concerns you is communicate with your partner. Be open and be honest.

You see, I was in this same situation you are in, and I talked with my girl about it. I found out that she had the same concerns. The thing is, we are both pretty horny all the time. We understand that we're not just together for the sex, though it definately is a huge benefit . So as long as you're not just together for the sex, and you really love eachother, then I think it's fine to have sex every day. It may begin to get old, and when it gets old enough, you won't do it as much. It's a natural progression. In the meantime, enjoy what you got .

On the other hand, if it concerns you both, you can set up some rules about limiting yourselves. Watch a movie or play a game instead. Read to eachother; find other romantic ways to spend time together. It's very rewarding.

elomeda_hai

thanks a lot tidalecko, i will take your advice on this. Anything else anyone would suggest?