Sex and Faking - Is it OK?

cowgirlup · 02-24-2006, 12:56 AM

Hey girls (and guys?) I was just wondering what you guys think about "faking it" during sex? Have you girls done it before? Guys do can you really tell if a girl is faking it?

I mean I've done it before in bed just to make him feel good, or sometimes just exaggerated because I know he wants to think he is pleasing me, but I don't know.

I had him try going down on me, and I don't know if I should even fake it during oral sex. I'm supposed to be the one getting pleasured when he eats me out, and I still feel compelled to fake it because he just doesn't get it done for me. I know I should probably have a conversation with him but I just don't know how to bring it up.

Do you guys have any advice and/or what are your thoughts on faking it, especially during oral?

blazinassgurl68 · 02-27-2006, 07:12 PM

just let him know, dont fake it, u wanna get pleased dont u? try telling him wat feels good 2 u for example if sticking his tongue inside ur pussy feels good then tell him it does, how is he supposed 2 know what 2 do if u r not telling him

blulegna87 · 03-21-2006, 06:16 PM

It is a horrible idea to fake it during sex especially if you ofetn have sex with the person. Just imagine that every time after that sexual experience, your lover's performance is just not up to par. You will be very upset when it's the same boring thing that they are doing. When you finally decide to say something about it, problems will arise and you will have to explain your reactions to prier intercourse. I would have to say DO NOT FAKE. IT MAY MAKE SEX WORSE FOR YOU!!!!

pittkat · 04-30-2006, 09:10 PM

Sex is about feeling good and enjoying yourself in the compnay of your partner. When I first started having sex I faked my orgasms a lot mainly because I didn't know how to explain what I wanted to my partner. However after I realized that I wasn't helping either one of us by faking it I started to voice to him what I wanted and I could instantly see a huge improvement in our sex life. When you have communication faking an orgasm is not necessary.

PsychoKlown · 05-19-2006, 04:48 PM

You should see the o-tapes. Will completely change your mind about real female orgasms.

I saw this with my GF and she finally opened up to me. I highly recommend seeing it.

http://www.theotapes.com/

TheLoveDoctor · 05-20-2006, 09:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PsychoKlown

You should see the o-tapes. Will completely change your mind about real female orgasms.

I saw this with my GF and she finally opened up to me. I highly recommend seeing it.

http://www.theotapes.com/

I'm sure that wasn't an awkward watch...

Rancid · 06-02-2006, 03:26 AM

Personally I don't really like 'faking it'

However it's not an issue with me and my girlfriend, as she manages to orgasm when I try to make her.

However I can see where you are coming from, and that you want him to feel happy about making your orgasm.

You should tell him though, and maybe tell him how to improve his 'part' in the whole thing.

April · 06-02-2006, 10:09 AM

Rather than fake it why don't you just tell him what you like and don't like. You can't expect him to guess and faking it just isn't fair to him.

cowgirlup · 06-02-2006, 11:10 PM

The thing is, it is kind of hard to tell him "oh, well you don't please me - we need to discuss this," and I want him to feel good! But I guess I do need to talk to him...

Rancid · 06-03-2006, 12:10 AM

You don't have to say it like that. You could start it like "Well I know you want to make me 'come' or orgasm as much as I do, so why don't you do this? Or why don't we try and work this out...."

Talking is the best way, honestly...

02-24-2006, 12:56 AM	#1 (permalink)
cowgirlup Virgin Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 21	Sex and Faking - Is it OK? Hey girls (and guys?) I was just wondering what you guys think about "faking it" during sex? Have you girls done it before? Guys do can you really tell if a girl is faking it? I mean I've done it before in bed just to make him feel good, or sometimes just exaggerated because I know he wants to think he is pleasing me, but I don't know. I had him try going down on me, and I don't know if I should even fake it during oral sex. I'm supposed to be the one getting pleasured when he eats me out, and I still feel compelled to fake it because he just doesn't get it done for me. I know I should probably have a conversation with him but I just don't know how to bring it up. Do you guys have any advice and/or what are your thoughts on faking it, especially during oral?

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02-27-2006, 07:12 PM	#2 (permalink)
blazinassgurl68 Virgin Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 1	just let him know, dont fake it, u wanna get pleased dont u? try telling him wat feels good 2 u for example if sticking his tongue inside ur pussy feels good then tell him it does, how is he supposed 2 know what 2 do if u r not telling him

03-21-2006, 06:16 PM	#3 (permalink)
blulegna87 In Like Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 47	It is a horrible idea to fake it during sex especially if you ofetn have sex with the person. Just imagine that every time after that sexual experience, your lover's performance is just not up to par. You will be very upset when it's the same boring thing that they are doing. When you finally decide to say something about it, problems will arise and you will have to explain your reactions to prier intercourse. I would have to say DO NOT FAKE. IT MAY MAKE SEX WORSE FOR YOU!!!!

04-30-2006, 09:10 PM	#4 (permalink)
pittkat Virgin Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Iowa Posts: 3	Sex is about feeling good and enjoying yourself in the compnay of your partner. When I first started having sex I faked my orgasms a lot mainly because I didn't know how to explain what I wanted to my partner. However after I realized that I wasn't helping either one of us by faking it I started to voice to him what I wanted and I could instantly see a huge improvement in our sex life. When you have communication faking an orgasm is not necessary.

05-19-2006, 04:48 PM	#5 (permalink)
PsychoKlown Virgin Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: SJ, CA Posts: 22	You should see the o-tapes. Will completely change your mind about real female orgasms. I saw this with my GF and she finally opened up to me. I highly recommend seeing it. http://www.theotapes.com/

06-02-2006, 03:26 AM	#7 (permalink)
Rancid In Like Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Bedroom Posts: 72	Personally I don't really like 'faking it' However it's not an issue with me and my girlfriend, as she manages to orgasm when I try to make her. However I can see where you are coming from, and that you want him to feel happy about making your orgasm. You should tell him though, and maybe tell him how to improve his 'part' in the whole thing.

06-02-2006, 10:09 AM	#8 (permalink)
April In Love Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Ottawa Posts: 165	Rather than fake it why don't you just tell him what you like and don't like. You can't expect him to guess and faking it just isn't fair to him.

06-02-2006, 11:10 PM	#9 (permalink)
cowgirlup Virgin Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 21	The thing is, it is kind of hard to tell him "oh, well you don't please me - we need to discuss this," and I want him to feel good! But I guess I do need to talk to him...

06-03-2006, 12:10 AM	#10 (permalink)
Rancid In Like Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Bedroom Posts: 72	You don't have to say it like that. You could start it like "Well I know you want to make me 'come' or orgasm as much as I do, so why don't you do this? Or why don't we try and work this out...." Talking is the best way, honestly...

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