Help please

arid81 · 04-12-2006, 08:40 PM

I'm with this guy for a few weeks now, and we're having sex. He's not really into foreplay, which I guess it's ok, but the problem that I have is, that It's so hard for me to climax. The first time we ever had sex, I almost came twice, but then it didn't happen. I don't know wtf i'm doing wrong, but I wish there was something to change that. And btw, he's the type of person, that "he's trained himself" (or so he says) not to get it hard, even when I play with his pennis.

Now i'm wondering two things.

One, he's really trained himself
Two, I really suck and getting him excited

Can somebody give me an opinion about this?

PS: my previous boyfriend would get it hard, just by kissing me, let alone anything else.

santi3hg · 04-12-2006, 08:44 PM

Some men are easily more turned on than others. Your new guy isn't sexually active so it seems. Which neccesarily isn't bad at all, so far as your sex life is satisfied. Um, this coming from a guy may seem odd, but you can always help yourself to reach climax also. Or just have him do it for you I assume, hope I helped.

arid81 · 04-12-2006, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by santi3hg

Some men are easily more turned on than others. Your new guy isn't sexually active so it seems. Which neccesarily isn't bad at all, so far as your sex life is satisfied. Um, this coming from a guy may seem odd, but you can always help yourself to reach climax also. Or just have him do it for you I assume, hope I helped.

It's never been a problem before, for me to reach a climax. Of course I take care of myself afterwards, but in the proccess, it's hard for me.

TheLoveDoctor · 04-12-2006, 08:50 PM

I think you should definitely try to get him into foreplay as this may helps things immensely.

santi3hg · 04-12-2006, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by TheLoveDoctor

I think you should definitely try to get him into foreplay as this may helps things immensely.

I would second that, seems to be the other way for now.

arid81 · 04-12-2006, 08:57 PM

He likes BJs, but I don't give him any, cause he refuses to go down on me. He says he doesn't like doing that, so I told him the same

04-12-2006, 08:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
arid81 Virgin Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 8	Help please I'm with this guy for a few weeks now, and we're having sex. He's not really into foreplay, which I guess it's ok, but the problem that I have is, that It's so hard for me to climax. The first time we ever had sex, I almost came twice, but then it didn't happen. I don't know wtf i'm doing wrong, but I wish there was something to change that. And btw, he's the type of person, that "he's trained himself" (or so he says) not to get it hard, even when I play with his pennis. Now i'm wondering two things. One, he's really trained himself Two, I really suck and getting him excited Can somebody give me an opinion about this? PS: my previous boyfriend would get it hard, just by kissing me, let alone anything else.

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04-12-2006, 08:44 PM	#2 (permalink)
santi3hg In Like Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Miami, Florida Posts: 34	Some men are easily more turned on than others. Your new guy isn't sexually active so it seems. Which neccesarily isn't bad at all, so far as your sex life is satisfied. Um, this coming from a guy may seem odd, but you can always help yourself to reach climax also. Or just have him do it for you I assume, hope I helped.

04-12-2006, 08:50 PM	#4 (permalink)
TheLoveDoctor Moderator Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: California Posts: 531	I think you should definitely try to get him into foreplay as this may helps things immensely.

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arid81 Virgin Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 8	He likes BJs, but I don't give him any, cause he refuses to go down on me. He says he doesn't like doing that, so I told him the same

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