getting a girl off during sex

acesorcerer17 · 05-11-2006, 07:04 AM

I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year now and I've had to resort to other ways to pleasure her. don't get me wrong, they work great and I don't mind, but I wish she would get off during sex(I'm sure she does too). we've tried many positions and different things but it's been tough to hit the g spot. It's worked a little bit before, but not enough for her.

anyone have any suggestions?

Ðanisty · 05-11-2006, 03:01 PM

Could you be more specific about why he hasn't reached climax? Is sex not lasting long enough, is it lasting too long, are the positions uncomfortable, etc? There could be a billion reasons why she isn't experiencing orgasm during sex. A little more information would help a lot.

acesorcerer17 · 05-12-2006, 09:26 AM

when having sex, it's hard for me to hit the g spot the way she likes it. I've done it before, but she said it's not enough for her to orgasm. so I was wondering if anyone had any tips/techniques that I havn't tried yet.

Ðanisty · 05-12-2006, 10:49 AM

Have you tried giving her head right before sex? Getting off from oral sex almost always makes me have better orgasms with penetration.

acesorcerer17 · 05-12-2006, 04:15 PM

I'm pretty sure I have. I guess I could always try again, but in the meantime, any other suggestions?

Ðanisty · 05-12-2006, 08:40 PM

Make sure she's wet enough, but make sure she's not too sopping wet or there will be no friction. Make sure there is nothing that could possibly distract either of you. Make sure she feels good about herself. Convince her not to think of your satisfaction. Honestly, great orgasms take concentration. She needs to focus on her feelings. Is she giving you enough clues as to what feels good? Are they obvious or is she just moaning and wimpering? She needs to be specific with you about exactly what feels good.

Also, to be completely honest here, if I'm having a hard time climaxing, I think about whatever turns me on and that's not always my husband pounding me. Sometimes it's a character from a novel (no, not the trashy romance type...real novels) or an anime or video game. Whatever it is doesn't really matter so you shouldn't worry about it. I know guys don't like to hear this stuff, but if it will make your girlfriend have an orgasm, it's worth a try. A lot of girls simply don't know how to have an orgasm. I don't mean to be offensive or anything. Maybe if she completely gets in the zone with some fantasy, it will break the ice for her or something.

acesorcerer17 · 05-13-2006, 10:46 PM

I know she knows how, she just doesn't during intercourse. she is pretty specific, so I dunno. it's not like we're going to stop trying or anything, so maybe we'll figure it out. thanks for your help anyway.

Ðanisty · 05-14-2006, 10:41 AM

Perhaps you could get her to join and I could talk to her directly? It would be a lot easier.

Kayla Bear · 05-14-2006, 08:31 PM

97% of women cannot reach orgasm through intercourse. Most of them need clitoral stimulation to get them there.

Ðanisty · 05-14-2006, 10:46 PM

I honestly think that's an inflated figure. I think more women could certainly reach orgasm during sex provided the conditions are right. You just have to find out what those conditions are. I didn't have orgams from intercourse for the first 5 years I was sexually active.

05-11-2006, 07:04 AM	#1 (permalink)
acesorcerer17 Virgin Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 14	getting a girl off during sex I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year now and I've had to resort to other ways to pleasure her. don't get me wrong, they work great and I don't mind, but I wish she would get off during sex(I'm sure she does too). we've tried many positions and different things but it's been tough to hit the g spot. It's worked a little bit before, but not enough for her. anyone have any suggestions?

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05-11-2006, 03:01 PM	#2 (permalink)
Ðanisty In Love Join Date: Nov 1999 Location: Savannah, GA Posts: 148	Could you be more specific about why he hasn't reached climax? Is sex not lasting long enough, is it lasting too long, are the positions uncomfortable, etc? There could be a billion reasons why she isn't experiencing orgasm during sex. A little more information would help a lot.

05-12-2006, 09:26 AM	#3 (permalink)
acesorcerer17 Virgin Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 14	when having sex, it's hard for me to hit the g spot the way she likes it. I've done it before, but she said it's not enough for her to orgasm. so I was wondering if anyone had any tips/techniques that I havn't tried yet.

05-12-2006, 10:49 AM	#4 (permalink)
Ðanisty In Love Join Date: Nov 1999 Location: Savannah, GA Posts: 148	Have you tried giving her head right before sex? Getting off from oral sex almost always makes me have better orgasms with penetration.

05-12-2006, 04:15 PM	#5 (permalink)
acesorcerer17 Virgin Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 14	I'm pretty sure I have. I guess I could always try again, but in the meantime, any other suggestions?

05-12-2006, 08:40 PM	#6 (permalink)
Ðanisty In Love Join Date: Nov 1999 Location: Savannah, GA Posts: 148	Make sure she's wet enough, but make sure she's not too sopping wet or there will be no friction. Make sure there is nothing that could possibly distract either of you. Make sure she feels good about herself. Convince her not to think of your satisfaction. Honestly, great orgasms take concentration. She needs to focus on her feelings. Is she giving you enough clues as to what feels good? Are they obvious or is she just moaning and wimpering? She needs to be specific with you about exactly what feels good. Also, to be completely honest here, if I'm having a hard time climaxing, I think about whatever turns me on and that's not always my husband pounding me. Sometimes it's a character from a novel (no, not the trashy romance type...real novels) or an anime or video game. Whatever it is doesn't really matter so you shouldn't worry about it. I know guys don't like to hear this stuff, but if it will make your girlfriend have an orgasm, it's worth a try. A lot of girls simply don't know how to have an orgasm. I don't mean to be offensive or anything. Maybe if she completely gets in the zone with some fantasy, it will break the ice for her or something.

05-13-2006, 10:46 PM	#7 (permalink)
acesorcerer17 Virgin Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 14	I know she knows how, she just doesn't during intercourse. she is pretty specific, so I dunno. it's not like we're going to stop trying or anything, so maybe we'll figure it out. thanks for your help anyway.

05-14-2006, 10:41 AM	#8 (permalink)
Ðanisty In Love Join Date: Nov 1999 Location: Savannah, GA Posts: 148	Perhaps you could get her to join and I could talk to her directly? It would be a lot easier.

05-14-2006, 08:31 PM	#9 (permalink)
Kayla Bear In Love Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 102	97% of women cannot reach orgasm through intercourse. Most of them need clitoral stimulation to get them there.

05-14-2006, 10:46 PM	#10 (permalink)
Ðanisty In Love Join Date: Nov 1999 Location: Savannah, GA Posts: 148	I honestly think that's an inflated figure. I think more women could certainly reach orgasm during sex provided the conditions are right. You just have to find out what those conditions are. I didn't have orgams from intercourse for the first 5 years I was sexually active.

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