Head? Yes? No?

garrettchapple

This is a question for the ladies.. Are you for or against giving blowjobs? I've had experiences with women that are strongly for it and quite the opposite, and I guess its just a matter of opinion, but what do you ladies think about the subject? If a women says no once, should you ask again or is there anyway to try and persuade her or is it a better idea to give up? I go down on my gf, but she doesnt go down on me Any ideas?

Ðanisty

Yeah, I think that's unfair. Frankly, unless it's just something you really enjoy, I would stop going down on her. Ever heard of the word reciprocation? I actually really enjoy giving blow jobs, but I'm still not going to give them if I don't get some in return. If she doesn't want to, that's her right. Personally, I think it's really prudish not to.

garrettchapple

Yeah, thats kinda how i feel.. I mean i love to pleasure her, but if I dont get anything in return, isnt that kinda unfair? What is really the big difference between me going down on her and her dowing down on me? She hasnt ever tried it either...

megzonamission

Hmm.. i really like giving head. Mostly because i like to see my man pleased. But there are times where every girl just isnt in the mood. If she says she is strongly opposed to it, she probably means it for all occasions. But if she simply said she doesnt want to, there is no shame in asking again. Maybe she's not into it all the time though, so dont probe her w/ the question every single day.

garrettchapple

Yeah, and Its not even that I possiblt suck at eating her out because she orgasms multiple times, its ust kinda frustrating that its never my turn..

Kayla Bear

i dont like giving it, cause it tastes absolutely horrible! if there were any way i could make him that happy without having to actually do that, i would. when he wants it, which is every time i see him, he asks me and continues to ask me until i give in, so im pissed off when im doing it, which may also be a reason i dont like doing it,... because theres never a time that im not upset while doing it. sometimes, its very rare, but sometimes, i will really be in the mood an ill want to give it to him... lol, once, i did it while he was sleeping, and he went off in my mouth, then i woke him up and told him what i did, and he was upset cause he missed it. =)

garrettchapple

lol.. yeah but still, either way, one partner is tasting something right? So whats the difference between her tasting e and me tasting her? I think part of the fun with giving oral for me is getting it in return as I please her too... you know?

megzonamission

Hmm, maybe you should just stop doing it and see if she starts to wonder. It definately isnt fair if you are always going down on her. Maybe if she realizes that you arent going to do it unless the favor is returned every now and then, she'll start.

panamalove23

yeah i agree with the others above... you shouldnt do it if she doesnt do it to you. its not fair at all that she gets all the good feeling and gets all shaky and you dont get it. my gf goes down on me, and enjoys it. i go down on her and she enjoys it. if she didnt go on me, i wouldnt for her. its a 2 way street, give and get. not all 1 way for her.

also for Kayla Bear... there is usually a 'taste' on either man or woman, but it shouldnt be "Bad." if it is bad its because they probably have bad cleaning habits, and for women bad cleaning and or eating habits. If a guy washes down there daily, and keeps himself clean, he shouldnt taste bad. i suggest that whenever anybody goes down on a person, that if taste bothers them, that they should wash up, suggest a shower, before they get into anything. dont go down on anyone if you just had a busy day and either person was sweating. both men and women area always tends to get more dirty (+ taste worse) during the day due to activities.

the rumor of all women tasting like fish or sourness down there is false. i havnt experience any bad taste with my gf at all. there is a taste, but it does not bother me... and i have a big dislike for many things. im very picky with what i eat and drink because of taste. and hers doesnt bother me so its perfectly fine. i still havnt experienced any bad taste. she says there isnt a taste that bothers her on me.

so i guess it all depends on hygiene and eating habits.

garrettchapple

Yeah.. I agree on the taste thing. But I have since talked to her and she says she thinks in is gross to give head and doesnt want to do it. So I asked what the difference between giving a bj and eating a girl out in general and she wouldnt give me a straight answer, but she says she thinks its fine for other girls to give bj's, but she just wont do it.. So im pretty frustrated right now.. Im thinking i might stop the oral thing until she notices. Maybe it wont bother her that i stopped? idk..