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09-15-2006, 11:07 AM
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| Virgin  Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: p-cola
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|  age diff vs. sex drive
hey, im new to this site but i have a question that ive been havin a problem tryin to figure out. my boyfriend and i are 11 years apart, im 20, anyways im pretty new to sex, ive only been havin it for about a year, and im pretty damn excited about it. it seams like a want it way more than he does. he says its because i am in my sexual peak while he has passed his. i dont know if i should just accept it and let it go or if i should keep pestering him about it. since nothing seams to be working (its not like we never have sex, just not as often as i would like) and i keep getting my feelings hurt when i get shot down i thougt one of you might have some ideas for me, or is this just a problem every couple goes through! please help!!
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09-15-2006, 11:51 AM
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| In Like  Join Date: Sep 2006
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My first guess is that he's either banging someone else, or masturbating a lot while thinking of someone else. Is it possible you two have other problems in your relationship? | |
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09-15-2006, 02:32 PM
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| In Love  Join Date: Nov 1999 Location: Savannah, GA
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I'm not sure what his problem is and you won't know unless you guys talk about it. However, he actually has passed his peak and you aren't even close yet. You won't hit your peak until you're about 30-35.
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09-15-2006, 03:25 PM
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Teh_drunk, there is no need to worry her like that; it is unfair to say his actions are being guided by an affair or thoughts of one. He has past his peak, but there aren't too many men out there who would turn down sex ... what do you mean by "peak" or "not as often as you like?" How many times per day / per week ?
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09-15-2006, 03:41 PM
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09-15-2006, 06:33 PM
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man teh drunk you are freakin me out!! im very much in love and i really trust him. and i guess i dont really know what i mean by "peak" i always assumed it meant how often you had sex and the intensity of it. and as for "not as often as i like" i really could do it once a day or more, but it only happens 2-4 times a week, very rarely more than once a day. maybe im asking for too much. teh drunk, quit scaring me!!!
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09-15-2006, 08:20 PM
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Every day is about right for a really horny teenage boy, but for a 31 year old man that might be excessive. | |
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