too long

Animus

i'm in a poly relationship. two girls one guy. me being the guy. the girls being 'Cat' and 'Ferret'

Ferret is very sensitive and cums in small fast orgasms so can go on all day. Cat has a large orgasm but this tires her out after about half an hour, and about an hour into things she's sore (Cat's vagina is a bit shallower)

problem is that Cat gets sore or tired before i'm done and Ferret is making me stay used to lasting a long time.

usually this allows me to have intercourse with both girls in the same session while on each other they have thier own speciaties (Ferret is good with oral. Cat is good with the strap on.)

however all this week Ferret has been in the hospital because of gallstones, and now Cat is getting raw.

this leads to two questions.
1. am i just getting too used to having sex with two people?

2. is there a way to cum faster when i'm just with Cat.

Ðanisty

Maybe you should both be more concerned about Ferret's health than how to get each other off while she's in the hospital.

Have you talked to Cat about it? Has she had this problem in the past or is this something new for her. I'm not a psychologist, but it's possible the problem isn't as physical as you think. I don't know her history or the history of this poly relationship though so I can't really even speculate.

Animus

oh ferret is doing fine. cat has been busy with school but i've been visiting the hospital freqently. shes actually coming home today.

actually me and Cat have always had the lasting long problem. before the poly relationship i was actually learning be quicker, its just that with Ferret around i haven't had any real reason to not last long. in fact i think i started a thread here a long time ago about the girls tiring out before i came.

the thing is that i'm worried that i'll get used to poly sex so much that one on one sex won't get me off anymore.

especially reading about a fetish where a person couldn't orgasm unless they had intercourse with several partners.