cumming and birth control

mb20angel · 12-18-2006, 07:40 PM

hey everyone, i have a question, i take birth control and im pretty good about remembering, ever so often ill forget and take it the next day but other than that i remember. ive never had a guy cum in me and i really want to know how it feels so i asked my boyfriend and he said he didnt want to just in case. because neither of us want kids and we have different opinions about abortion. so i guess my question is, if i take my birth control pretty much religiously is it safe for my boyfriend to cum in me just once??

Ðanisty · 12-18-2006, 10:30 PM

Nothing is 100% safe...even what you're doing right now. However, I can say that I was on birth control for years and had guys cum in me and never got pregnant.

By the way, whatever your position is on abortion, stick to it if you get pregnant...you're the one who has to live with the consequences, whatever they may be.

TheLoveDoctor · 12-19-2006, 03:29 AM

If you want to be perfectly 100% safe, don't let him cum inside you. But if you *really* want to do this, make sure you take you're pill regularly and follow your cycle. Pregnancy is most likely if intercourse occurs anywhere from 3 days before ovulation until 2-3 days after ovulation, so avoid sex during that time.

And I have to sound off on Danisty's comment on abortion. It is a little too one-sided and I actually have a problem with that statement. I don't think any young woman should be "encouraged to get an abortion" as it is a very difficult decision and a devastating experience for a woman.

Don't get me wrong; I'm not advocated one position over the other, I'm simply saying KNOW and WEIGH your options which include adoption, abortion, and raising the child yourself or with family members. I don't think you should "stick to abortion if you get pregnant" as that is a rather irresponsible statement to make without knowing your specific circumstances. For some women, abortion might be a valid and correct decision, for others, adoption and so on.

Anyways, I know you probably didn't expect a rant on the whole abortion issue and to play the WHAT-IF game on your pregnancy status...

But know that the pill is fairly effective if taken properly. If your boyfriend feels comfortable, then it might be worth trying, but understand that it does increase your risk of pregnancy, however slightly. Explore Fertility Awareness and avoid sex during your fertile periods.

mb20angel · 12-19-2006, 08:03 AM

thanks you guys. i really appreciate it. im gonna talk to my boyfriend again and see how it goes. thanks again

Ðanisty · 12-20-2006, 09:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheLoveDoctor

If you want to be perfectly 100% safe, don't let him cum inside you. But if you *really* want to do this, make sure you take you're pill regularly and follow your cycle. Pregnancy is most likely if intercourse occurs anywhere from 3 days before ovulation until 2-3 days after ovulation, so avoid sex during that time.

And I have to sound off on Danisty's comment on abortion. It is a little too one-sided and I actually have a problem with that statement. I don't think any young woman should be "encouraged to get an abortion" as it is a very difficult decision and a devastating experience for a woman.

Don't get me wrong; I'm not advocated one position over the other, I'm simply saying KNOW and WEIGH your options which include adoption, abortion, and raising the child yourself or with family members. I don't think you should "stick to abortion if you get pregnant" as that is a rather irresponsible statement to make without knowing your specific circumstances. For some women, abortion might be a valid and correct decision, for others, adoption and so on.

Anyways, I know you probably didn't expect a rant on the whole abortion issue and to play the WHAT-IF game on your pregnancy status...

But know that the pill is fairly effective if taken properly. If your boyfriend feels comfortable, then it might be worth trying, but understand that it does increase your risk of pregnancy, however slightly. Explore Fertility Awareness and avoid sex during your fertile periods.

Seeing as how I don't know our OPs side on the abortion issue, I don't see how it can be said that I was advocating abortion over any other option. I said she should stay true to her own personal beliefs on the issue. If she agrees with abortion, then she should not be pressured not to have one, but on the same token, if she disagrees with abortion, she should not be pressured into one. In no way did I suggest that she should just go out and get an abortion.

RockerGuy · 12-21-2006, 09:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheLoveDoctor

If you want to be perfectly 100% safe, don't let him cum inside you. But if you *really* want to do this, make sure you take you're pill regularly and follow your cycle. Pregnancy is most likely if intercourse occurs anywhere from 3 days before ovulation until 2-3 days after ovulation, so avoid sex during that time.

And I have to sound off on Danisty's comment on abortion. It is a little too one-sided and I actually have a problem with that statement. I don't think any young woman should be "encouraged to get an abortion" as it is a very difficult decision and a devastating experience for a woman.

Don't get me wrong; I'm not advocated one position over the other, I'm simply saying KNOW and WEIGH your options which include adoption, abortion, and raising the child yourself or with family members. I don't think you should "stick to abortion if you get pregnant" as that is a rather irresponsible statement to make without knowing your specific circumstances. For some women, abortion might be a valid and correct decision, for others, adoption and so on.

Anyways, I know you probably didn't expect a rant on the whole abortion issue and to play the WHAT-IF game on your pregnancy status...

But know that the pill is fairly effective if taken properly. If your boyfriend feels comfortable, then it might be worth trying, but understand that it does increase your risk of pregnancy, however slightly. Explore Fertility Awareness and avoid sex during your fertile periods.

I really don't think she was advocating abortion at all. I think she was just getting her to think very hard about her convictions and beliefs if she is gonna take such a risk and be completely prepared for all possible outcomes.

TheLoveDoctor · 12-22-2006, 03:55 AM

Oh, I re-read Danisty's post and realized I *completely* misread it, I read it as:

" whatever your position is on abortion, stick to it [it = abortion] "

vs.

" whatever your position is on abortion, stick to it [it = your position] "

in that case, Danisty and I are on complete agreement as a response. My apologies, but in my haste/tiredness I had thought you meant "whatever your position is on abortion, stick to abortion" - I realize now I completely misread it, and again, my apologies.

Ðanisty · 12-22-2006, 09:45 AM

No problem. We all misread stuff sometimes. I probably could have been clearer with my modifiers anyway...darn grammar.

12-18-2006, 07:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
mb20angel Virgin Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: p-cola Posts: 23	cumming and birth control hey everyone, i have a question, i take birth control and im pretty good about remembering, ever so often ill forget and take it the next day but other than that i remember. ive never had a guy cum in me and i really want to know how it feels so i asked my boyfriend and he said he didnt want to just in case. because neither of us want kids and we have different opinions about abortion. so i guess my question is, if i take my birth control pretty much religiously is it safe for my boyfriend to cum in me just once??

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12-18-2006, 10:30 PM	#2 (permalink)
Ðanisty In Love Join Date: Nov 1999 Location: Savannah, GA Posts: 148	Nothing is 100% safe...even what you're doing right now. However, I can say that I was on birth control for years and had guys cum in me and never got pregnant. By the way, whatever your position is on abortion, stick to it if you get pregnant...you're the one who has to live with the consequences, whatever they may be.

12-19-2006, 03:29 AM	#3 (permalink)
TheLoveDoctor Moderator Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: California Posts: 531	If you want to be perfectly 100% safe, don't let him cum inside you. But if you really want to do this, make sure you take you're pill regularly and follow your cycle. Pregnancy is most likely if intercourse occurs anywhere from 3 days before ovulation until 2-3 days after ovulation, so avoid sex during that time. And I have to sound off on Danisty's comment on abortion. It is a little too one-sided and I actually have a problem with that statement. I don't think any young woman should be "encouraged to get an abortion" as it is a very difficult decision and a devastating experience for a woman. Don't get me wrong; I'm not advocated one position over the other, I'm simply saying KNOW and WEIGH your options which include adoption, abortion, and raising the child yourself or with family members. I don't think you should "stick to abortion if you get pregnant" as that is a rather irresponsible statement to make without knowing your specific circumstances. For some women, abortion might be a valid and correct decision, for others, adoption and so on. Anyways, I know you probably didn't expect a rant on the whole abortion issue and to play the WHAT-IF game on your pregnancy status... But know that the pill is fairly effective if taken properly. If your boyfriend feels comfortable, then it might be worth trying, but understand that it does increase your risk of pregnancy, however slightly. Explore Fertility Awareness and avoid sex during your fertile periods.

12-19-2006, 08:03 AM	#4 (permalink)
mb20angel Virgin Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: p-cola Posts: 23	thanks you guys. i really appreciate it. im gonna talk to my boyfriend again and see how it goes. thanks again

12-22-2006, 03:55 AM	#7 (permalink)
TheLoveDoctor Moderator Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: California Posts: 531	Oh, I re-read Danisty's post and realized I completely misread it, I read it as: " whatever your position is on abortion, stick to it [it = abortion] " vs. " whatever your position is on abortion, stick to it [it = your position] " in that case, Danisty and I are on complete agreement as a response. My apologies, but in my haste/tiredness I had thought you meant "whatever your position is on abortion, stick to abortion" - I realize now I completely misread it, and again, my apologies.

12-22-2006, 09:45 AM	#8 (permalink)
Ðanisty In Love Join Date: Nov 1999 Location: Savannah, GA Posts: 148	No problem. We all misread stuff sometimes. I probably could have been clearer with my modifiers anyway...darn grammar.

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