What Should I Do?

Kayla Bear

My boyfriend takes nude pictures of me all the time, and while it's a little embarassing, I kind of like it. However, on two occasions, he has asked our older, mutual, deaf friend to take pics of us together and record us and stuff. I've gone through with it, but it was humiliating. I'm generally a humble, timid person, who has no self esteem. The topic was brought up a few days ago to do it again in 4 days, and I'm not so sure that I'm comfortable with it. In no way is our friend a threat, but it is embarassing, and for whatever reason, I feels degrating. I know that if I go through with it, that my bf will be busy looking at that for at least a few weeks, rather than looking at or adding more to his porn collecion, and that makes me feel a little better, but I don't know that it's worth it. I hope I wasnt jumping around too much, to not be understood. I just need some advice. thanks.

Froldt

I'd say that the bottom line is, if you aren't comfortable, don't do it.

Yes, there are some good points (your boyfriend watching you guys and not other porn), but if they don't outweigh your comfort zone, or it's not for the greater good, then don't do it.

Is there some way that you could compromise? Video yourselves using a tripod, or have your boyfriend hold the camera, or something (since you do kind of like it).

TheLoveDoctor

I think in general taking pictures and videos isn't the best idea - what if you guys break up in the future?

April

If you aren't totally comfy with it; DONT do it.

And like the DR said, do you totally trust that these pics wouldnt be used against you if you two ever decide to break up?

DaVinci

I agree With April... You have to becarefull to your self.............