help i cant orgasm

mb20angel

hey everyone. lately ive been having a problem having an orgasm. the last two times with my man. well i usually can only orgasm when i use my bullet. sometimes i think i might have a g-spot orgasm but its only when use the bullet too.the last two times i couldnt at all. i just kept losing the feeling. can anyone help me. i would really like to orgasm without the bullet but i never did before so i dont know if its possible!! help if you can! thanks everyone
frustrated

panamalove23

i think you're too self conscience during sex. You're thoughts are all revolving around "I NEED TO ORGASM. **** I CANT ORGASM. I KNO I CANT. I CAN ONLY DO IT WITH A BULLET. THIS IS SO HORRIBLE. I WISH I CUD. THIS GETS ME SO MAD" n u just end up shutting yourself off sexually. Don't even think about it. Maybe you should also not masturbate. Ur body is so use to THAT, so when you do it with a man you don't get the vibration on the g-spot, and not only that but a penis doesn't concentrate solely on the g-spot, it's getting everything.

Simplyme

It could be a lot of different things but stress is typically a number one cause of things like this. I personally have never had an actual orgasm and that is mainly because in my day to day life I am a stress ball. Don't let yourself panic and it will happen if medically you are not dealing with any issues then subconsciously you probably are not fully allowing yourself to relax and let go.

The Ice Queen

the best way is to relax. psyching yourself out about it will only worsen the situation. you must learn to prime yourself, emotionally and psychologically, to be ready to absorb and enjoy the feeling of lovemaking. Concentrate. Make sure you're not too stiff or tensed. make sure you like what you're feeling. If not, then guide your partner as to what pleases you or not. Communication is very vital.

bubble

I think you maybe putting yourself under too much pressure to reach climax. It is quite normal to not orgasm every single time you have sex. If you loose the feeling, concentrate on pleasing your partner, and who knows it may occur naturally.