Continuing sexual relations?

[panamalove23]

Sex means different things for different people. Some see it as something that should only be shared with your relationship partner. If you like having sex with your ex, and no problems arise about why you guys broke up, or if you should be back together again then keep going. But some couples just end up refalling for eachother. Now if you think you're going to refall, then I suggest you stop.

[TIWI2000]

o0 man..i thought i waz the only crazy one..well i be3n havin sex wit my ex after we had about 2 months of brakin up..it iz kinda crazy yezz really crazy cus i still love him but i dont want 2 tell him i dont noe im weird

[panamalove23]

Originally Posted by TIWI2000

o0 man..i thought i waz the only crazy one..well i be3n havin sex wit my ex after we had about 2 months of brakin up..it iz kinda crazy yezz really crazy cus i still love him but i dont want 2 tell him i dont noe im weird

You're not weird. It's completely fine to be somewhat afraid of saying something that big. You guys broke up and are hooking up, so at least you're talking like friends. If you were to tell him how you feel, he will either open up to you and the relationship will be reborn, or he'll be like "oh, I knew this would happen... I dont feel like this for you... I thought we had gotten over that stuff and were just being together. So, I think I should go" and bam, all of a sudden no more speaking to eachother. Its a 50/50. Does he show signs that he loves you too?

As for on topic: Sex has one definition, but its not the same to everyone. Everyone posted correctly by saying that some see it for love and some for fun. I see it for fun, and I wouldn't mind to continue doing it with an ex. I'm currently in a relationship, but I dont think I'd mind to continue having sex if we were to break up. Now on the other hand, she sees sex as an act of love. So it wouldn't work out. If both of the persons are fine with having sex with each other after breaking up, then its fine. Just remember that one may fall for the other again, or both may fall for each other again, or none will fall, and you will enjoy NSA sex.

[bubble]

But I reckon sex is never the same after you breakup and there is no love. It might satisfy the physical urge (which is important) but there is no intimicy...

[harvey]

I experience the best sex when making up afrer a break-up. Maybe its worth splitting up, just to make up again, and enjoy GREAT sex!!!