ADHD burnout has become a more and more commonly used term as more and more people are experiencing it. It can be described as an intense mental or emotional exhaustion that comes from the efforts needed to manage life with ADHD.

We will discuss some of the factors that lead to burnout, how to deal or cope with them and common symptoms and prevent them.

What Is ADHD Burnout?

Burnout is real feelings and emotions that drain a person mentally and physically. Reduced feeling of accomplishment can also be a result.

People with ADHD spend a lot of time and energy trying to meet expectations for themselves and others. This constant attempt to please everyone can drain you.

Key Characteristics of ADHD Burnout:

Intense mental and emotional exhaustion
Feelings of failure or self doubt
Withdrawal from responsibilities
A sharp decline in executive functioning skills
Increased sensitivity to rejection or criticism
Physical fatigue, headaches, or other stress related symptoms

Why Are People with ADHD More Prone to Burnout?

This part is a bit complex but we shall list a few but it’s not an exclusive list below.

1. Executive Dysfunction

ADHD impacts the brain functions for things like organization, prioritization and initiation of things. This can make daily tasks feel like climbing a mountain and the effort to try to tasty on track in life can lead to mental exhaustion.

2. Masking and People Pleasing

Lots of people with ADHD mask symptoms to fit social expectations. Things like staying quiet, hyperactivity, or overcompensating. It takes work to stay vigilant as you can become exhausted to appear normal.

3. Perfectionism and Impostor Syndrome

People with ADHD often seek perfectionism. This is a way they try to improve themselves and they end up pushing themselves to the brink to try to prevent people perceiving them as being less than ideal. It can lead to a vicious cycle of overwork and burnout.

4. Rejection Sensitivity

Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), is a common occurrence that causes emotional pain in response to perceived fear of failure or letting others down.

5. Inconsistent Energy Levels

ADHD often displays in energy extremes. Some days are good, some days are bad, Fluctuation make it hard to keep pace with daily life that can eventually burn people out.

ADHD Burnout vs. General Burnout

While there are overlaps, ADHD burnout differs from general burnout in key ways:

Feature	General Burnout	ADHD Burnout
Trigger	Typically caused by overwork, especially in professional environments	Can be caused by daily life demands, masking symptoms, and internalized pressure
Consistency	Builds gradually over time	Can come in cycles due to inconsistent energy levels
Coping	May improve with rest or a vacation	Often requires more systemic change and ADHD specific strategies
Underlying Cause	External stressors	A mix of external demands and internal neurobiological factors

Signs and Symptoms of ADHD Burnout

ADHD burnout can manifest in emotional, mental, and physical ways. While everyone experiences it differently, common symptoms include:

Emotional Symptoms:

Irritability or big swings in someone’s mood
Feeling hopeless or depression
Low self esteem
Guilt over decreased productivity

Cognitive Symptoms:

Inability to focus or make decisions
Forgetfulness and mental fog
Procrastination and paralysis
Loss of interest in previously enjoyable tasks

Physical Symptoms:

Chronic fatigue
Headaches or muscle tension
Inconsistent Sleep
Gut or stomach issues

Coping with ADHD Burnout

Coping with and trying to recover from burnout does take time and intentional strategies but below are some helpful steps.

1. Acknowledge the Burnout

When it hits, the first step is to acknowledge your feelings toward healing them. Your emotional feelings are valid and it doesn’t mean you failed, just doing too much for too long without the right support or coping mechanisms in place.

2. Rest Without Guilt

Rest is essential. Don’t try to earn rest by doing things, it’s damaging and counterproductive. Rest without worry or guilt and balance is key to a meaningful part of the recovery process.

3. Simplify and Prioritize

Reduce your commitments wherever possible. Focus on the easier things first and prioritize. Leveraging work like methodologies can help.

4. Re evaluate Your Environment

Streamlining your workspace or living space as too much can easily overwhelm or distract you from staying in the right mindset. Keep it simple!

5. Practice Self Compassion

Everyone makes mistakes, it’s ok if you do and don’t be too hard on yourself. Use positive words like I’m doing my best to help assist that pesky negative thoughts away.

6. Seek Support

Seeking a LCSW with experience in using techniques like (especially CBT or ADHD coaching) can help you sustain and develop your coping mechanisms. Support groups, relationship counseling, and family therapist can also help keep you on track after developing a plan.

Preventing ADHD Burnout

Once you’ve recovered or if you’re looking to avoid burnout altogether, prevention strategies are key.

1. Routine with Flexibility

Structure helps people with ADHD, but rigid routines can backfire. Create a routine that provides consistency but allows for bad days. For example, plan buffer time between tasks and avoid over scheduling.

2. Use External Tools

There are lots of options from using notes, calendars, alarms but staying organized and structured can for sure help.

3. Learn to Say No

Set boundaries to not overload yourself, feeling overwhelmed is a sure fire way to set one up for failure and negative thoughts or mental states.

4. Celebrate Small Wins

Celebrate the small things. These will help you stay positive and feel accomplished.

5. Balance Stimulation and Rest

Find the right mix of activity and downtime. For some, active rest (like walking or drawing) works better than complete stillness. Know what recharges you and make it a regular habit.

Summary

ADHD is difficult to live with and presents challenges that can increase the risk of burnout. Understanding and treating it with compassion, strategies can make a difference. Its not a weakness, but with the right support you can leverage your ADHD to protect your mental health.

Seek help from a LCSW who can help you to leverage your ADHD to your benefit.

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